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"A true wife makes a man's life nobler, stronger, grander, by the omnipotence of her love 'turning all the forces of manhood upward and heavenward.' While she clings to him in holy confidence and loving dependence she brings out in him whatever is nobles and richest in his being. She inspires him with her courage and earnestness. She beautifies his life. She softens whatever is rude and harsh in his habits or his spirit. She clothes him with the gentler graces of refined and cultured manhood. While she yields to him and never disregards his lightest wish, she is really his queen, ruling his whole life and leading him onward and upward in every proper path. -JR Miller

Wednesday, June 13, 2012

I WANT THAT BOOK...

No not 50 Shades of Grey but the Man’s Unwritten Rule Book, because I would like to rip it to shreds. Some of those rules are stupid. Why shouldn’t men share their deepest darkest sexual fantasy with their wives?

Oh close your mouth you are catching flies. Yes I really asked my husband that question; I wanted to plan a special get away weekend for our anniversary. Yes I see the guys doing face palms and hear the girls saying “ah how sweet” Yeah well this is how this whole thing went down…

I always email hubby off the wall things. He is never shocked by my emails anymore well that was until this last one. A couple of days had passed since I sent “the” email, usually he will respond right away with some type of answer if nothing else “let me get back to you on this” well I had heard nothing. So I texted him…

Me – have you checked your email

Him – yeah checked it last night

Me – OH ok

Him – I am still thinking about

Me – ok

A few more days passed and I was sinking further into this funk I was in. So I while I was chatting with one of our HoH friends that I can tell anything to and he will be totally honest and blunt with me. He doesn’t care if he hurts my feelings well he does care but he understands that I expect him to be totally honest with me. So I told him about the question. Now we are on yahoo chat so I couldn’t tell if he had walked away from the computer of if he was in shock. Finally I said get up off the floor it wasn’t that bad of a question. He said yes it was and he will never answer that question. He then went on to explain to me that I was topping from the bottom AGAIN and that if I did extract the fantasy out of hubby and planned the weekend it would not turn out to be his fantasy. You see he knows me TOO well. He knows I am a control freak and well I would have planned every detail and tried to control the whole thing. (Darn him he is so mean)

I always share my chat logs with hubby when I have chatted with men ALWAYS and when he read the chat log last night he laughed all the way through it; this put me in a pouty mood. Later in the evening when we were having an end of the day chat time before bed he pulled my bottom lip and said ah babe don’t pout. You know S is right no guy will ever share his fantasy with his wife. I tried to explain again that I just wanted to plan a special weekend to please him. He told me to forget he was not sharing. I tried again and all I got out was But, I… and he stopped me. He said if I was really honest I would admit that I would never share my deepest darkest fantasy either. You guessed it I fell for that hook line and sinker; I said yes of course I would. ZAP he had me and reeled me in.

Him – You would huh?

Me – of course

Him- well what is it

Me – uh…

Yep my lips sealed up tighter than a clam’s shell. I did say I was willing to try anything. Now hubby has perfected the arched eyebrow look that mean give their wives and last night I got the full effect. He pulled back looked me dead in the eye and gave me the look. He said “really” I said well yeah DUH…that is when his hand connected with my bare bottom. Maybe I should not have added the duh…don’t worry I realized what I said about the time his hand connected. I really must engage my brain before I speak especially when the bottom is exposed and within reach.

I thought I could tease it out of him. I tried I really did but he knew what I was doing and gave me enough rope to hang myself with. Then he took control and turned the tables. He took control and proved he knew ways of getting my attention. I went from between his legs to flat of my back from being a tease to be punished. It had me wondering where he learned this technique. Once he knew he had my attention he told me just to plan a weekend and use my VIVID imagination that he was sure I would please him and not to worry if he didn’t like it would let me know.

The results of my punishment has carried over to this morning, I am hot, flustered and have tender nipples and he is grinning like a Cheshire cat.

5 comments:

KayJune 13, 2012 at 8:43 PM
Ha, ha, totally know what you mean. I want that book so I can rip it to shreds too! Grrr.... :)
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SusieJune 14, 2012 at 6:10 AM
LOL Annie! I think maybe in the end he got exactly what he wanted without telling you a thing. Men!

Have fun planning your weekend.
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Florida DomJune 14, 2012 at 9:05 AM
Nice that he was grinning like a Cheshire cat. Sounds like he got what he wanted and that he usually does.

FD
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SaraJune 16, 2012 at 7:21 AM
Annie, I think (?) that when we surrender in a D/s or TTWD relationship..they DO get what they want. They can make their fantasies happen whenever they want, and just the way they want...right? Over time I've realized that this is just what my guy is doing when he takes me/us places we've not been before, or just does what he pleases. No words are needed! Sara
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Colossians 3:18-25

Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them. Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord. Fathers, do not provoke your children, lest they become discouraged. Slaves, obey in everything those who are your earthly masters, not by way of eye-service, as people-pleasers, but with sincerity of heart, fearing the Lord. Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You are serving the Lord Christ. For the wrongdoer will be paid back for the wrong he has done, and there is no partiality. Colossians 3:18-25 ESV

1Peter 3:1-7

Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives, when they see your respectful and pure conduct. Do not let your adorning be external—the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear— but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God's sight is very precious. For this is how the holy women who hoped in God used to adorn themselves, by submitting to their own husbands, as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord. And you are her children, if you do good and do not fear anything that is frightening. Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered. 1Peter 3:1-7

Proverbs 31: 10-31

An excellent wife who can find? She is far more precious than jewels. The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain. She does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life. She seeks wool and flax, and works with willing hands. She is like the ships of the merchant; she brings her food from afar. She rises while it is yet night and provides food for her household and portions for her maidens. She considers a field and buys it; with the fruit of her hands she plants a vineyard. She dresses herself with strength and makes her arms strong. She perceives that her merchandise is profitable. Her lamp does not go out at night. She puts her hands to the distaff, and her hands hold the spindle. She opens her hand to the poor and reaches out her hands to the needy. She is not afraid of snow for her household, for all her household are clothed in scarlet. She makes bed coverings for herself; her clothing is fine linen and purple. Her husband is known in the gates when he sits among the elders of the land. She makes linen garments and sells them; she delivers sashes to the merchant. Strength and dignity are her clothing, and she laughs at the time to come. She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue. She looks well to the ways of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children rise up and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: “Many women have done excellently, but you surpass them all.” Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. Give her of the fruit of her hands, and let her works praise her in the gates. Proverbs 31: 10-31 (ESV)

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